living with grand parents

I do believe in the idea that we may be in the right age to make babies but maturity of rasing them in the right manner..i dont know..at least i hav doubted my self a thousand times on different occasions..

Chip in the grandparents..

They are those wonderful people who love your child as much as you do..some times even more than you..
They have much more time generally to give to your child than you do..
 and they have the experience to match it too..

I am happy n lucky that my kids are growing with grand parents..
They listen to his constant blabber as it is music..
Infact all credit goes to my father in law to make Priyanshu( 3 yrs)drink his milk every day...he tells him a new story every day so that he drinks that glass of milk...

When i lose my patience with my priyanshu they are there to tell him its ok ...

I dont know how people with nuclear family support their kids..kiddos to them..but for me..i just cant think of it without the help of my in laws...

second child has set me free...

Priyanshu was a premature child .Being the first child and a pre term child i had set high standards for my self n child care from the beginning.Its only now that i accept that i was paranoid...

thank god for my second child ..she has set me free..free from all those inhibitions...

I do have good standards..but now i know better...

Its ok..if she sleeps through her next feeding ...
Its alright if she is sick...kids get sick...they would be fine soon with some care..
Its alright if she is waking up at night...
Its also fine if she is not......
I dont worry when she pees a lot n does not poo for 2 days any more...
Its ok if i leave her n go sometimes....she will be fine...

I know the idea of a second child was a night mare for me ...not any more...im happy ...i have been set free....

Thank you my darling angle had it not been you i would not had realised this...